Fifth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 8A)
June 28, 2026
Text: Matt. 10:34-42
Jesus is the Prince of Peace. Yes. Absolutely. He makes peace between God and man by His death on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins, and His resurrection, which restores us to God and gives us life. He gives us peace of mind and heart, now, by consoling us with this Good News; assuring us that we stand before God as His own justified, beloved children, baptized into Christ; and pouring out His Spirit upon us. And He will bring with Him an eternal and comprehensive peace when He comes again in glory.
But that doesn’t always make for peace within our families, here and now, or among other people, who don’t believe in Christ, and so do not accept our faith in, and allegiance to, Him. In fact, they resent us for it. And feel judged by it. And are egged on by the devil and the world to mock us, reject us, shun us, or even persecute us for it. That is what Jesus means by the shocking words we hear Him speak this afternoon: “I have not come to bring peace, but a sword” (Matt. 10:34; ESV). It is the continuation of what we heard last week. Brother delivering brother over to death, and the father his children, and children their parents, and so forth. That is, there is a cost to being a disciple of Jesus. Grace is free, but it is not cheap.
Jesus speaks a hard Word to us today. That indicates that it’s real, by the way. No one is scratching your itching ears, or just blowing smoke. What is this business about setting a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law, and a person’s enemies being those of his household (vv. 35-36)? Isn’t Jesus for family values? Aren’t we supposed to love our families? Of course. Of course. But not more than Jesus. Not more than God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
What this is, is a matter of ordered loves. There is a divinely given order to our loves. Did you know that? We should love our parents. There is even a Commandment about that (the Fourth: “Honor your father and your mother. What does this mean? We should fear and love God so that we do not despise or anger our parents and other authorities, but honor them, serve and obey them, love and cherish them”). But we should not love them more than Jesus. We should love our children. God gives parents for that purpose, to love and care for children (that is included in the Fourth Commandment). But we should not love them more than Jesus. We could add, we should love our spouse. Again, there is a Commandment about that (the Sixth: “You shall not commit adultery. What does this mean? We should fear and love God so that we lead a sexually pure and decent life in what we say and do, and husband and wife love and honor each other). But we should not love them more than Jesus. We should even love our life. It is God’s gift to us (His to give, and His to take, as we learn in the Fifth Commandment). But we should not love it more than Jesus. “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take up his cross and follow me is not worthy of me” (Matt. 10:37-38). It’s so contrary to our instinct. But, in fact, we must be willing to lose these precious people, and even our own life for the sake of Jesus, why? Not because we don’t love them, but because we love Him more. “Whoever finds his life”... holding on to this earthly life, and all its joys, and all its relationships, whatever the cost… “will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake”... whether literal martyrdom, or persecution, or severed relationships, or just people being mean to you because you bear Jesus’ Name… “will find it” (v. 39). Eternally. Abundantly. In Jesus. Because, “take they our life, Goods, fame, child, and wife, Though these all be gone, Our vict’ry has been won; The Kingdom ours remaineth” (LSB 656:4).
Ordered love. Here is the order: God first. Jesus first. Lose all else, whenever necessary, for His sake. That is the First Commandment: “You shall have no other gods… We should fear, love, and trust in God above all things.” Then spouse, children, father and mother. In that order. Family. We should love them, but we dare not make them idols. (That would be unloving to them, to place the weight of Almighty God’s responsibility on their shoulders.) And then watch as the concentric circles of ordered love continue. Neighbors. There is an order, here, too. Church family first, as we’ll see in a moment. Then friends. Then community (co-workers, next door neighbors, and such). Then whoever else God places in your path. And sometimes you have to do a little triage to know who to help first with the resources God gives you. My first allegiance may be to a Church member, but if a nextdoor neighbor has a greater need, I may serve him first, because that is more urgent. But you get the picture. And note why this order is so important. Because love is not abstract, and it’s not just warm and fuzzy feelings. And so, you can’t love humanity in general, because humanity in general is an abstract concept. Love is decision, and concrete action, which you can only bestow on concrete people. And so, lift up your eyes from your navel and look around you. These are the people God gives you to love.
And what about those Church members? Jesus commands us, here, to receive them. That is, love them. Care for them. Show hospitality to them. He has several classifications that describe, pretty much, the whole gamut of our brothers and sisters in Christ. He starts with those who bring the Word of Christ, and administer His Sacraments. When you receive them… gladly hearing and learning the Word of Christ from them, and receiving the gifts (Third Commandment)... you receive Jesus Himself. And when you receive Jesus, you receive the Father, who sent Him (v. 40). Then, when you receive a prophet, because he is a prophet, sent by Jesus, get this… you receive a prophet’s reward (that is, you share in the credit for his ministry)! Isn’t that amazing? Pure grace! We don’t deserve it. When you receive a righteous person… and that is to say, one justified by faith in Jesus Christ, covered in His blood, which is all those sitting around you… because he is a righteous person, you receive a righteous person’s reward (and that is all the eternal life and gifts of the justified) (v. 41). And when you give even a cup of cold water… the smallest act of mercy and kindness… to one of these little ones… that is, literally the children of the Church, but also to all who have a simple and joyous faith in Jesus Christ… who don’t appear to be much in the eyes of the world, and maybe are even despised by the world and by those who do appear to be much… when you do that because he is a disciple of Jesus… you will by no means lose your reward. And what is that? I think Jesus leaves it ambiguous on purpose. We can’t even begin to imagine the rewards Jesus will give us in heaven. Earned? Well, that’s not really the right word, is it? By grace alone, apart from works, or any idea of earning anything, our sins are forgiven, and we are given new life in the Spirit. And that Spirit works that life in us, such that we begin to do good works. It is His work in us, then, that He rewards. And we get to enjoy that.
Because He loves us. There is an order to God’s love, too. It is a great mystery. He loves His Son, first and foremost. And yet, what does He give, out of love for us, to make us His own? His beloved Son. His suffering. His blood. His cross and death for us, for the forgiveness of our sins, and our eternal life and salvation. He redeems us. And then, He continues to care for us, because He loves us. And not in the abstract. Not just theoretically. Not just in words, and in warm and fuzzy feelings. Concretely. He loves us through our neighbor, loving us. And He loves our neighbor, through us, loving them.
Ordered love. God first, and everyone else falling into their place, where you can love them best. Losing your life for Jesus’ sake, and so finding it. A very practical Gospel for us this day. God grant us, beloved, to hear and to heed. And so, to live and love in Jesus, who lives, and who loves us. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son +, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.